﻿<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Polymath's Xanga</title><link>http://polymath.xanga.com/</link><description>Latest Xanga weblog from Polymath</description><language>zh</language><ttl>60</ttl><image><title>The Weblog Community</title><url>http://s.xanga.com/images/xangalogobutton.gif</url><link>http://polymath.xanga.com/</link></image><item><title>Fedor vs. Rogers 11/7/09</title><link>http://polymath.xanga.com/715999225/fedor-vs-rogers-11709/</link><guid>http://polymath.xanga.com/715999225/fedor-vs-rogers-11709/</guid><pubDate>Thu, 12 Nov 2009 15:03:22 GMT</pubDate><description>More to follow:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;-------&lt;br&gt;I have Fedor winning by submission in the first.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;-------&lt;br&gt;http://www.sherdog.com/news/news/were-all-human-fedor-critiques-rogers-fight-20867&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Okay, so I was wrong.&amp;nbsp; Fedor, TKO 2nd round.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The above interview was short and sweet.&amp;nbsp; I love his humility...&amp;nbsp; I hope that however I practice medicine, or achieve in the future, I will always have this kind of humility.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><comments>http://polymath.xanga.com/715999225/fedor-vs-rogers-11709/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Shogun (将軍）vs. Machida（町田） part 2.</title><link>http://polymath.xanga.com/715874046/shogun-%e5%b0%86%e8%bb%8d%ef%bc%89vs-machida%ef%bc%88%e7%94%ba%e7%94%b0%ef%bc%89-part-2/</link><guid>http://polymath.xanga.com/715874046/shogun-%e5%b0%86%e8%bb%8d%ef%bc%89vs-machida%ef%bc%88%e7%94%ba%e7%94%b0%ef%bc%89-part-2/</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 18:18:16 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;a href="http://polymath.xanga.com/703213994/machida-vs-shogun/"&gt;Machida vs. Shogun&lt;/a&gt; - Previous Entry&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I finally got to watch this match yesterday, having forbidden myself from reading any news on the match until I got back from Asia.&amp;nbsp; After watching it, I must admit that I was both a tiny bit disappointed, for I personally thought Shogun had taken the victory and thus disagreed with the judges' decision.&amp;nbsp; On the other hand, it was a brilliant fight; probably one of the most technically impressive striking matches I've seen in the UFC, ever.&amp;nbsp; Both fighters performed to their potential, and it was pyrotechnic.&amp;nbsp; They both displayed excellent intelligence, and executed the strategies well.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;While I, and it appears most sites, seem to give the nod to Shogun, looking at the match from UFC judging criteria, I could see it going to Machida.&amp;nbsp; That said, in an extended fight, Shogun's strategy should have eventually resulted in defeat for Machida, as in rounds 6-10.&amp;nbsp; The beating that Machida's legs were taking is nothing to sneeze at.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Honestly, Shogun performed far better than I had expected.&amp;nbsp; I had not expected him to return to the form we remember from the Pride middleweight GP fight form.&amp;nbsp; That is, his conditioning and physical prowess.&amp;nbsp; The intelligence and strategy that he now employs is superior to what he had before.&amp;nbsp; Both Machida and Shogun are impressively formidable.&amp;nbsp; Neither &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;destroyed &lt;/span&gt;the other, and neither embarrassed themselves.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I can't wait to see either of their next fights.&amp;nbsp; A rematch would be nice, but I think that it was brilliantly fought, and near even, with the advantage to Shogun.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This was TMA at its best.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;(&lt;a href="http://www.sherdog.com/news/articles/pros-pick-machida-vs-shogun-20493" rel="nofollow"&gt;Pro's Picks&lt;/a&gt; from Sherdog prior to the fight...)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><comments>http://polymath.xanga.com/715874046/shogun-%e5%b0%86%e8%bb%8d%ef%bc%89vs-machida%ef%bc%88%e7%94%ba%e7%94%b0%ef%bc%89-part-2/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Food for Thought / Health Foods</title><link>http://polymath.xanga.com/715734492/food-for-thought--health-foods/</link><guid>http://polymath.xanga.com/715734492/food-for-thought--health-foods/</guid><pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 14:52:08 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;A href="http://www.economist.com/opinion/displaystory.cfm?story_id=14743783" rel="nofollow"&gt;Food Glorious Food&lt;/A&gt; - From the Economist&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;A href="http://www.economist.com/opinion/displayStory.cfm?story_id=14744956&amp;amp;source=hptextfeature" rel="nofollow"&gt;Regulating Health Food &lt;/A&gt;- From the Economist&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;A href="http://www.economist.com/opinion/displaystory.cfm?story_id=14743757" rel="nofollow"&gt;Omega 6 and Omega 3's &lt;/A&gt;- From the Economist&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;HR id=null&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;A lot of money is made from convincing wealthy patrons that they &lt;EM&gt;might&lt;/EM&gt; live a little longer by spending quite a bit of money on foods and supplements.&amp;nbsp; This is a long established pattern of behaviour that one can see even in legendary Chinese Emperors dispatching armies to search for immortality -- Even French adventurers such as Ponce de Leon.&amp;nbsp; Though some might scoff at such gallantry, smaller forays are often done at health food stores and pseudo-medical interventions.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Much may do no harm, and some might do some good, but almost all share one trait: no strong evidence for doing good.&amp;nbsp; The Placebo effect grants that a person perceives benefit 20% of the time, despite no actual drug (established using drug and sugar pills).&amp;nbsp; If this effect is present in health foods (which it no doubt is), then one might surmise that many people are paying a lot for a psychological effect.&amp;nbsp; Small benefits are hard to prove; and harder still to disprove to an undiscerning public.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;If any of you are loyal consumers of high priced health foods, recall that many such fads have come and gone, and some gone only after vast sums of money have been exchanged.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Of course, the worst fads do harm.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Ciao.&lt;/P&gt;</description><comments>http://polymath.xanga.com/715734492/food-for-thought--health-foods/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Compassion and Finance?</title><link>http://polymath.xanga.com/714378942/compassion-and-finance/</link><guid>http://polymath.xanga.com/714378942/compassion-and-finance/</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 17:53:20 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;P&gt;"Without enterprise and aspiration&amp;#8221;, he said, &amp;#8220;compassion comes with an empty wallet&amp;#8221;: &lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;George Osborne, Shadow Chancellor, UK&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;A href="http://www.economist.com/world/britain/displayStory.cfm?story_id=14586868" rel="nofollow"&gt;Dave and whose Army&lt;/A&gt; - From the Economist&lt;/P&gt;</description><comments>http://polymath.xanga.com/714378942/compassion-and-finance/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Obama?!</title><link>http://polymath.xanga.com/714177517/obama/</link><guid>http://polymath.xanga.com/714177517/obama/</guid><pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 2009 18:32:12 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;a href="http://www.economist.com/world/international/displayStory.cfm?story_id=14626903&amp;amp;source=features_box_main" rel="nofollow"&gt;From the Economist&lt;br&gt;&lt;/a&gt;As one of my friends put it, they've changed the Nobel prize to an "Anti Bush/Cheney/Rumsfeld" prize.&amp;nbsp; Alternatively, it's become the Nobel Potential for achieving Peace prize.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Either way, it strikes me as rather odd, for there must be some other individuals who have already achieved more in tangible contributions to achieving peace...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><comments>http://polymath.xanga.com/714177517/obama/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Strategies</title><link>http://polymath.xanga.com/714100960/strategies/</link><guid>http://polymath.xanga.com/714100960/strategies/</guid><pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2009 15:33:22 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;a href="http://www.economist.com/businessfinance/displayStory.cfm?story_id=14587130&amp;amp;source=hptextfeature" rel="nofollow"&gt;Bull in a china shop&lt;/a&gt; - From the Economist&lt;br&gt;&lt;hr style="width: 100%; height: 2px;"&gt;Many years ago, I remember a classmate ran for student government based on a speech centered on a line from the movie, City Slickers.&amp;nbsp; The movie was about a trio of city dwellers going through a mid life crisis that go to ride in a cattle drive to do some soul searching.&amp;nbsp; Jack Palance tells the group about a secret to life...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Curly: Do you know what the secret of life is?&lt;br&gt;Curly: This. *holds up one finger*&lt;br&gt;Mitch: Your finger?&lt;br&gt;Curly: One thing. Just one thing. You stick to that and the rest don't mean shit.&lt;br&gt;Mitch: But, what is the one thing?&lt;br&gt;Curly: That's what you have to find out. *smiles* &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;hr style="width: 100%; height: 2px;"&gt;It's a highly relativistic argument... and when I was sixteen, I thought it was quite trite, and didn't entirely know why the movie had gotten some acclaim for its profundity.&amp;nbsp; What's so interesting about a group of middle aged men trying to find themselves again?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Now, in my thirties, I think back to the line, and I realise much more acutely why it appeals to those of us that have been working in the "rat race".&amp;nbsp; At work, one is easily buffeted by the chaotic expectations of those around you... work harder, faster, earn more, be more sociable, have more friends... etc.&amp;nbsp; How does one keep perspective when everyone shows a different set of priorities -- a different strategy for self fulfillment.&amp;nbsp; If one were to half-heartedly pursue these strategies, alternating from time to time, one could easily get lost by being defined by someone else's ethos.&amp;nbsp; The only way to resist this affect on your framework is by having a principle driven framework in place... so...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;What are the victory conditions in life?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;There are so many definitions.&amp;nbsp; Some want the most money or toys.&amp;nbsp; Some want a legacy, others want family and friends.&amp;nbsp; Some want notoriety.&amp;nbsp; Others might want amazing memories.&amp;nbsp; Still others just want out.&amp;nbsp; There are so many definitions for how to "win"... so many divergent strategies.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Within the same working group, each individual might have different strategies, and they may actually not conflict at all.&amp;nbsp; For instance if one person wants to be the most productive, his strategy might succeed, simultaneously allowing his colleague to succeed in his strategy of doing the least work in the group.&amp;nbsp; They both feel like they've "won" that encounter.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The problem, of course, is when you want to be seen as a winner by all.&amp;nbsp; The reality, is that you can't fulfill victory conditions for everyone -- nor should you want to.&amp;nbsp; If you've chosen a path that emphasizes human compassion over notoriety or money, it doesn't make much sense to envy those that have.&amp;nbsp; Those that have chosen a path to wealth may strangely consider their path best and most successful, even though others might look at their lives as empty.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The definitions of success differ -- and we ought to accept that those differences exist.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Yet what if there are, aside from these relative definitions of success of life, an absolute?&amp;nbsp; What if your strategy is based on the wrong assumptions about the mechanics of life?&amp;nbsp; We only get to live life once (I would assert), and reset buttons don't really exist... so it's quite conceivable that we would live based on wrong premises.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;One can try to define the "conditions of victory" by oneself -- and in some sense, this is necessary for a well considered, introspective life -- it is, in a word, existentialism.&amp;nbsp; However, if a framework of meaning exists beyond human-centered definitions, this should form a more sound foundation for defining the meaning of one's life.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Relativistic Existentialism helps keep a mind clear, above the froth of constantly shifting priorities that any mass of humanity will generate.&amp;nbsp; However, self-definition of those strategy runs afoul with the possibility that one's assumptions are wrong.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As far as I go, I try to base my "victory conditions" on the bible.&amp;nbsp; It's not always easy, but I think it's a far firmer foundation from which to view our world.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description><comments>http://polymath.xanga.com/714100960/strategies/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>More on Fights (And some links...)</title><link>http://polymath.xanga.com/712811481/more-on-fights-and-some-links/</link><guid>http://polymath.xanga.com/712811481/more-on-fights-and-some-links/</guid><pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 12:11:43 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;a href="http://tizzyalexander.xanga.com/"&gt;TizzyAlexander's Post on Fighting&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://polymath.xanga.com/711941986/interlude-feedback-loopshomeostasis/"&gt;My Older post on Equilibrium&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;My Older post on &lt;a href="http://polymath.xanga.com/682479820/fights/"&gt;Fights&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;hr style="width: 100%; height: 2px;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.economist.com/businessfinance/displayStory.cfm?story_id=14493183&amp;amp;source=hptextfeature" rel="nofollow"&gt;The Pedagogy of the Privileged&lt;/a&gt; - From the Economist&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.economist.com/blogs/charlemagne/2009/09/the_disaster_of_monolingual_br.cfm" rel="nofollow"&gt;The disaster of Monolingual Britain&lt;/a&gt; - From the Economist&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="margin-left: 40px;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.economist.com/blogs/freeexchange/2009/09/speak_easy.cfm" rel="nofollow"&gt;And the Rebuttal&lt;/a&gt; - From the Economist&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;hr style="width: 100%; height: 2px;"&gt;Regarding Tizzy's Post:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I'm not married... but somehow, I always end up giving relationship advice -- and this has been true since I was in middle school, 4-5 years before I ever had a one on one conversation with a girl.&amp;nbsp; Bizarre, eh?&amp;nbsp; But somehow, for whatever reason, some people just assumed that I'd have some useful insight...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The real irony to responding to Tizzy's post is that I'm now engaging in a discussion with a rather wise and insightful young lady who is actually married and has spades of committed, covenantial experience with maintaining constructive harmony with a mate.&amp;nbsp; So... She can rely on 1) Scripture, 2) Experience, 3) Her partner, 4) Her wisdom/insight.&amp;nbsp; I'm relying on - 1) Scripture, 2) Philosophy, 3) Theoretical Conjecture, 4) Making stuff up.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Talk about discussing from a disadvantaged position!&amp;nbsp; :)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I'll start by saying I like her thoughts on the matter, but the purpose of discussion is to sharpen our understanding -- hopefully, I can do just that -- for I can give up on gainsaying her perspective~!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;hr style="width: 100%; height: 2px;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;In an ideal marriage, there would no fighting. This is because conflict within marriage is caused by selfishness, and in an ideal marriage there would be no selfishness. Most people think this should be a GOOD thing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I don't actually know if this is completely true... Firstly, what are we using as a definition for fighting?&amp;nbsp; Using the inference that one would draw between the two statements that Vagrant and Tizzy make up mutual working definition: &lt;span id="text-1499935171"&gt;"we don't fight - we disagree, but we don't shout&lt;/span&gt;," and "Yes, we fight, but we don't shout," I think we can come up with a basis for discussion for what is a fight.&amp;nbsp; The modification in the above statement shows that fighting is a disagreement, with or without loud voices.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;That's probably the definition I used growing up...&amp;nbsp; Using my definition in the context of a relationship sometimes got me into bigger fights, because I'd say something to the effect of, "Why are you yelling at me?" meaning, "Why are you upset with me (even though you're using a low-volume voice)."&amp;nbsp; To which the other might say, "I'm not yelling..."&amp;nbsp; And then things would degenerate.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;:)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;So, if we use the term disagree as a proxy for fight, then we have to pose a couple scenarios.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Tizzy's first scenario is one where we are completely unselfish.&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br style="color: rgb(255, 255, 128);"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 128);"&gt;This is because conflict within marriage is caused by selfishness, and in an ideal marriage there would be no selfishness.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(255, 255, 128);"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 255, 128);"&gt;Unfortunately the only place where we can have an ideal marriage is in Heaven, where, ironically, there is no marriage.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br style="color: rgb(255, 255, 128);"&gt;&lt;br style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 255, 128);"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 255, 128);"&gt;So while on earth, all of us are sinful and selfish, so we will fight. Most people think this is a BAD thing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;To clarify her statement, I think she's talking about selfishness as a subset of sinfulness.&amp;nbsp; While on earth, we will be given to sin, and thus self-interest, and thus be brought into conflict with another self-interested individual.&amp;nbsp; Why?&amp;nbsp; Because in the short term, our self-interests may at times coincide, but just as easily differ.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;But there's more to it than that.&amp;nbsp; Several of the problems two individuals have when trying to see "eye to eye" on any given topic is: 1) We have different lexicons/terms.&amp;nbsp; 2) We have different basic operating definitions. 3) We have different priorities. 4)We have different methodologies for execution. 5) We have different "victory conditions."&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;If we were to be selfless, the above would still be true.&amp;nbsp; If we were sinless, and thus operating perfectly within God's revealed will and intentions, then the above is still probably true, as we were made differently (fearfully and wonderfully to boot).&amp;nbsp; If we had the mind of God, and were able to assimilate everything and thus perfectly understand every perspective within the fabric of contrary opinions, then we might be able to agree, despite every nuanced difference that we possess.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;These differences will always create a need for on-the-fly adjustments, and moreover, since individuals are also dynamic, they too will change, and all of their decision/action characteristics will also change.&amp;nbsp; As such, even with perfectly unselfish people, they may define "good" for themselves and for their other differently, requiring re-definition and re-coordination.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In short, I agree with Tizzy's conclusion that a fight-free marriage is impossible on this side of eternity, but for a slightly different reason.&amp;nbsp; We cannot be fight-free/disagreement-free without being perfect in motivation and insight.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;We can, however, be harmonious in our disagreement.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 255, 128);"&gt;But imagine what happens when we fight. One of us, or both of us, will not get our way. Considering that both of us are selfish, it is actually good practice not to get our own way. It is a way that God uses to teach us to be selfless. This is a GOOD thing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I love this paragraph.&amp;nbsp; :)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 255, 128);"&gt;And imagine further a selfish marriage within which there is no fighting. This means that one of the parties is getting his or her way all the time, and the other one is giving in to everything. This means that the selfish person will never get redeemed from his/her selfishness. This is a BAD thing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;There is, actually, an exception to this -- which is also patently impossible, though philosophically possible.&amp;nbsp; (I thought about this one in high school)...&amp;nbsp; If two self-interested individuals are actually seeking to please the other to get the other to please them -- then they might be given to this scenario.&amp;nbsp; More ominously, you could have two people who are selfishly coincident in their interests at all times.&amp;nbsp; Then they could both be free to "pursue happiness" at all times, and not get in one another's way.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Fat chance, eh?&amp;nbsp; :)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 255, 128);"&gt;Or else, this could mean that both parties are getting their own way all the time, by not interacting with each other. Spouses that never cross paths rarely fight. Not only do they not get purified, they also don't really have a marriage. This is a BAD thing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Well put.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;hr style="width: 100%; height: 2px;"&gt;I think fights/disagreements are good.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Without them, you're not communicating.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Assertion 1).&amp;nbsp; You are "unique."&amp;nbsp; Therefore your characteristics will differ from your spouses, though perhaps only by degrees. (I put unique in quotations, because -- well, it's almost facetious to use this phrase at times).&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Assertion 2).&amp;nbsp; You are intentionally made.&amp;nbsp; The differences are purposed and useful.&amp;nbsp; (Psalm 139:13-14)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Synthesis 1)&amp;nbsp; You and your spouse are supposed to be different, and those differences should be respected and esteemed.&amp;nbsp; When you disagree, take it as an opportunity to see how God has made someone differently, realising that those differences may indeed enhance you and your life together.&amp;nbsp; You, collectively, are a microcosm of the church.&amp;nbsp; If Romans 12 applies to us individually in the context of the body as a whole, then it certainly applies to us individually in the context of a marriage.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Assertion 3)&amp;nbsp; Everyone is a sinner.&amp;nbsp; Some of the decisions we would like to make will be erroneous and sinful. Some of the ways we do things will be hurtful.&amp;nbsp; (Romans 3:23)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Assertion 4)&amp;nbsp; There is strength in numbers:&lt;span style="visibility: visible;" id="main"&gt;&lt;span style="visibility: visible;" id="search"&gt; Ecclesiastes 4:9-12&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Assertion 5)&amp;nbsp; God honours groups that gather in his name:&amp;nbsp; Matthew 18:20&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Synthesis 2)&amp;nbsp; We tend to have many moments of weakness.&amp;nbsp; Having a spouse can help us continue onwards, even when we "fall down".&amp;nbsp; If one wants to be cute, you can say that husband + wife + God = 3... in the context of a God centered marriage.&amp;nbsp; But even if we don't want to be cute, the thought remains.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;When we sin, or are about to sin, our mates can help remind us of our sinfulness... and remind us to be more like Christ.&amp;nbsp; This is less a difference in nature than a difference in timing.&amp;nbsp; One may be irritable and short, hopefully the other can try to quell such tempestuousness.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Assertion 6) We communicate differently and use different words&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Assertion 7) Lack of understanding leads to festering conflicts. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Synthesis 3) It's better to bring a conflict out into the open to discuss and come to a common understanding than to "bury it" and let it simmer.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Communication about points of disagreement can be explosive, but it doesn't have to be.&amp;nbsp; It can be civil... and loving.&amp;nbsp; I think by remembering that God loves the other as much as he loves you, it's easier to listen to the other with Grace and acceptance.&amp;nbsp; The disagreement may remain, but at least it will be understood.&amp;nbsp; Hopefully, you married someone's whose goals and operating methods aren't antithetical to yours.&amp;nbsp; If they vary by degrees, some synthesis should be achievable.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It's not win or lose, when we're talking about a couple.&amp;nbsp; As a couple, as one flesh, the unit needs to prosper, not the individual parts... I like to think of it this way; does your right brain need to "trash" your left brain, and win all the time?&amp;nbsp; Your composite mind may have a preferred mode, but its not ever all one or another -- unless the brain has been injured...&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;A couple is more than the sum of its parts.&amp;nbsp; Each half has much to offer and some degree of disagreement is the rule; we &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;are, &lt;/span&gt;after all, different.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Learning to coordinate these differences requires mutual respect and a heart that is "quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to anger."&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Wow... that can be hard to do, eh?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I guess that's why we need Grace.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Oh...&lt;br&gt;&lt;sup class="versenum" id="en-NIV-30355"&gt;&lt;br&gt;16&lt;/sup&gt;Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.&amp;nbsp; James 5:16(NIV)&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The best thing about this is, you've got someone you'll be sinning against and confessing to...right in your own home.&amp;nbsp; :)&amp;nbsp; Confess your sins... it's a vital part of healing.&amp;nbsp; (Too big a topic.)&lt;br&gt;&lt;hr style="width: 100%; height: 2px;"&gt;Next:&lt;br&gt;MBA&lt;br&gt;</description><comments>http://polymath.xanga.com/712811481/more-on-fights-and-some-links/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Maturity / Seperation Anxiety</title><link>http://polymath.xanga.com/712699757/maturity--seperation-anxiety/</link><guid>http://polymath.xanga.com/712699757/maturity--seperation-anxiety/</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 13:00:47 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;a href="http://www.answers.com/topic/separation-anxiety-disorder" rel="nofollow"&gt;Separation Anxiety&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I had a conversation yesterday with a young person that has been dealt a rather difficult catch 22.&amp;nbsp; Remaining necessarily vague, I'll merely say that this person is facing a "crisis point" where they have to come to a new understanding of the relationship between parent and child.&amp;nbsp; Ironically enough, it's a stage of maturation that parents need to go through, and a stage that the child has to go through somewhat separately.&amp;nbsp; Of course the child gets to go through it as a parent later down the line.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;sup style="font-style: italic;" class="versenum" id="en-NIV-28661"&gt;11&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;sup style="font-style: italic;" class="versenum" id="en-NIV-28662"&gt;12&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: right;"&gt;1 Corinthians 13:11-12&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: left;"&gt;Maturity is the third of my trio of topics for early autumn 2009.&amp;nbsp; Maturation is a funny process - we can talk about biological maturity in the sense of an organism's growth, followed by sexual development to adult stages where an organism can reproduce -- then it approaches senescence and death.&amp;nbsp; Behavioural/psychological maturity can be approached in a variety of ways, but Freud and Erikson's schema figure heavily in these analyses of maturation.&amp;nbsp; Spiritual maturity doesn't appear to have any formal stages in academia, so far as I can tell, but I'd break it roughly into stages that parallel biological maturity, in that there's a infancy followed by adolescence, maturity and reproductive phases.&amp;nbsp; Theoretically, there ought not be a senescent stage.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Biological maturation really is quite tied to biology and genetics -- one hits menarche when one's hormonal surges occur.&amp;nbsp; The brain and body develops whether you want them to or not.&amp;nbsp; Yes, drugs can affect this process, but it's really not that advisable to alter this process (even though we do so inadvertently in the US).&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Behavioural/psychological maturation is somewhat tied to chronology, but here the variation is quite stark.&amp;nbsp; With different types of experiences and stimuli, adolescent behaviour can be seen throughout decades -- I think we can all think of adults that are more poorly behaved than the most recalcitrant adolescent.&amp;nbsp; We would expect maturation to bring about better long term planning, the ability to bite one's tongue, perspective, better risk management behaviour.&amp;nbsp; All of which is quite variable.&amp;nbsp; One can also make the argument that personality affects maturation -- some people may prefer to continue to "act like a child".&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Defining what makes a child childish and what makes an adult mature is no mean task.&amp;nbsp; Books have been and will continue to be written about this topic.&amp;nbsp; What I'd like to do is hit this topic in a couple very focused ways.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1) From Paul's perspective, what is maturity?&lt;br&gt;2) What does Genesis 2:24 (and Paul's quotation of it in Ephesians 5) have to do with maturation?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;sup style="font-style: italic;" class="versenum" id="en-NIV-55"&gt;24&lt;/sup&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1) What is maturity?&lt;br&gt;At some point in life, we reach an inflection point where we are expected to take up new responsibilities - our primary role of absorbing and growing as a child comes to an end, and we are expected to start taking on responsibilities on behalf of others.&amp;nbsp; In most traditional cultures we have "Rites of Passage" that mark that inflection point, where the expectations change.&amp;nbsp; This point is no longer defined in the US.&amp;nbsp; Perhaps it's 18, maybe 21 ... I'm fairly certain no such definition exists.&amp;nbsp; No one seems to sit children down and say -- you are a man now... you are a woman now...&amp;nbsp; We are left, as a whole, to figure it out on our own.&amp;nbsp; It fits the general relativism that pervades our culture today, but I do think we have come to a bit of a conundrum...&amp;nbsp; The very valuation/prioritization of self-sacrifice has been eroded by the lack of emphasis on the expectations of maturity.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The longevity of a society, biblically based or not, depends on a prioritization on community and self sacrifice.&amp;nbsp; Without such an emphasis, society becomes a collection of mutually feeding parasites, each individual striving to maximize their utility of shared resources.&amp;nbsp; I think Paul's statement of maturation is a powerful one, as it alludes to a process we no longer explicitly acknowledge anymore.&amp;nbsp; We intuitively expect "adults" to function as "adults".&amp;nbsp; Yet that training is no longer really explicitly or implicitly available, by and large.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Paul draws a parallel between maturation and insight into eternity.&amp;nbsp; It's hard for a child to see as an adult -- if not impossible.&amp;nbsp; They lack the perspective of time, and perhaps even the neurological development.&amp;nbsp; It is also a travesty for an adult to act/think as a child (though it's good to have faith like a child).&amp;nbsp; Similarly, in the face of seeing God spiritually, we can look forward to a maturation that allows us to eventually &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;know&lt;/span&gt; God, as he knows us.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It should be obvious that the difference between or presently limited insight is profoundly different from the experience and relationship between God and man that he sketches out in the second of the above verses.&amp;nbsp; It is implied that the difference between child and adult is also profound.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;In my opinion, the adult needs to learn a couple key principles:&lt;br&gt;1) Self sacrifice/responsibility to community &lt;br&gt;2) Perspective - you have to start to see the &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;very &lt;/span&gt;big picture; global society scale.&amp;nbsp; Also, emotional difficulties should be seen in perspective, people come and go, mistakes happen and so forth.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;3) From a Judeo-Christian perspective, it's also critical to see one's dependency on God.&lt;br&gt;&lt;hr style="width: 100%; height: 2px;"&gt;&lt;br&gt;The second sub-topic is separation from one's parents...&amp;nbsp; Biblically, we are called to honour our fathers and mothers... but we're also called to separate.&amp;nbsp; I'm relatively traditional in that I really want to obey/honour my parents.&amp;nbsp; They do, however, recognize that I have to be able to do things my own way.&amp;nbsp; Post marriage, the responsibility described by the Bible is for a man to cleave (become wedded inseparably to) his wife.&amp;nbsp; The priority in relating is now to her.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I think one struggle that I've seen in Asian families is when a child sides too much with the parents -- and there will be occasions where that alliance will be against the other person.&amp;nbsp; It's very damaging to a marriage/relationship. Both partners need to know that their relationship with one another will remain sacrosanct, and work from that basis on other problems.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I think Genesis describes that basis well -- the image of one flesh being quite compelling, both allegorically, and in some senses, literally.&amp;nbsp; Paul expounds on this type of relationship in Ephesians 5 beautifully.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Maturing as a child also requires separation from one's parents... and in this context, so that one is cloven to one's partner.&amp;nbsp; It doesn't mean ceasing to honour one's parents -- but rather that one will do so from the context of a sacred bond between a husband and wife.&amp;nbsp; It doesn't mean ceasing to want to take care of them -- but it does mean subordinating that principle somewhat, such that one's integration with one's spouse is more secure and complete.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><comments>http://polymath.xanga.com/712699757/maturity--seperation-anxiety/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Comments from around the web/Pushing and Pulling Continued</title><link>http://polymath.xanga.com/712600726/comments-from-around-the-webpushing-and-pulling-continued/</link><guid>http://polymath.xanga.com/712600726/comments-from-around-the-webpushing-and-pulling-continued/</guid><pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 16:21:59 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;A href="http://www.cleveland.com/news/plaindealer/othercolumns/index.ssf?/base/opinion/1253435665113040.xml&amp;amp;coll=2" rel=nofollow rel="nofollow"&gt;My Hospital's CEO's comments on Obesity&lt;/A&gt; - Plain Dealer&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A href="http://www.economist.com/blogs/democracyinamerica/2009/09/reducing_the_tiny_footprints.cfm" rel=nofollow rel="nofollow"&gt;Smaller Carbon Footprints&lt;/A&gt; - from the Economist&lt;BR&gt;&lt;A href="http://www.economist.com/businessfinance/displayStory.cfm?story_id=14460534&amp;amp;source=hptextfeature" rel=nofollow rel="nofollow"&gt;Insider Trading in Hong Kong&lt;/A&gt; - From the Economist&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;HR id=null&gt;&lt;A href="http://myladyfox.xanga.com/712474819/the-push-and-pull/"&gt;Someone else's take on Pushing and Pulling&lt;/A&gt; - From myladyfox&lt;P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Having looked through some of the reactions that my post has generated regarding the natural give and take that occurs in relationships, it seems to me that I've some clarifying to do.&amp;nbsp; First of all, the push and pull is really a comment on equilibria that exist in any "relationship."&amp;nbsp; The above post discusses the issue from a biblical perspective about mutual servant-hood, giving and so forth... which are absolutely essential.&amp;nbsp; I mean, who can argue with the concept of two individuals completely given to giving to one another?&amp;nbsp; Striving to anticipate and out-serve the other?&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;If one could trust one's mate to &lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;EM&gt;always &lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;do what's in your best interest, how liberating would that be?&amp;nbsp; Would you then be liberated to try to do what's in their best interest also?&amp;nbsp; Hopefully... although I think that, left to our own devices, humanity is far more prone to a more self-centered response -- enjoy the benefits, and pursue more self-gratification by taking the sacrifices of one's other for granted.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I believe that with God's help, one can approach a much more self-denying sort of love, in the sense that one can put the other's needs before one's own and trust God for provenance of one's needs -- hopefully through one's partner...&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;The post about Equilibrium, however, is that our basic natures and impulses give us all divergent ways of approaching things.&amp;nbsp; This divergence, this multiplicity of perspectives allows for a greater depth of insight into issues and scenarios -- and this diversity/plurality should allow for better decisions -- though it does not obviate matters of headship etc.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;I think my hope was to spark an appreciation of differences of opinion and to remind the reader to try to regard disagreement as a tool for growth and improvement of one's life-course and way of doing things.&amp;nbsp; The thermodynamics of positive and negative feedback loops are well documented -- and I think offer insight into why it's a good thing that males and females operate differently -- and on a broader scope, why operating differently is good in general.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;A href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Wisdom_of_Crowds" rel="nofollow"&gt;The Wisdom of Crowds.&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;1 Corinthians 12:12-31&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28631&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;12&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;The body is a unit, though it is made up of many parts; and though all its parts are many, they form one body. So it is with Christ. &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28632&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;13&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;For we were all baptized by&lt;SUP class=footnote value='[&lt;a href="#fen-NIV-28632c" title="See footnote c"&gt;c&lt;/a&gt;]'&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;[&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A title="See footnote c" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Corinthians+12&amp;amp;version=NIV#fen-NIV-28632c" rel="nofollow"&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;c&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;]&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt; one Spirit into one body&amp;#8212;whether Jews or Greeks, slave or free&amp;#8212;and we were all given the one Spirit to drink. &lt;/EM&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28633&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;14&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;Now the body is not made up of one part but of many. &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28634&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;15&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;If the foot should say, "Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body," it would not for that reason cease to be part of the body. &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28635&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;16&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;And if the ear should say, "Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body," it would not for that reason cease to be part of the body. &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28636&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;17&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;If the whole body were an eye, where would the sense of hearing be? If the whole body were an ear, where would the sense of smell be? &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28637&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;18&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;But in fact God has arranged the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be. &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28638&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;19&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;If they were all one part, where would the body be? &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28639&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;20&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;As it is, there are many parts, but one body. &lt;/EM&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28640&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;21&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;The eye cannot say to the hand, "I don't need you!" And the head cannot say to the feet, "I don't need you!" &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28641&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;22&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;On the contrary, those parts of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28642&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;23&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;and the parts that we think are less honorable we treat with special honor. And the parts that are unpresentable are treated with special modesty, &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28643&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;24&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;while our presentable parts need no special treatment. But God has combined the members of the body and has given greater honor to the parts that lacked it, &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28644&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;25&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;so that there should be no division in the body, but that its parts should have equal concern for each other. &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28645&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;26&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;If one part suffers, every part suffers with it; if one part is honored, every part rejoices with it. &lt;/EM&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;EM&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28646&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;27&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it. &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28647&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;28&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;And in the church God has appointed first of all apostles, second prophets, third teachers, then workers of miracles, also those having gifts of healing, those able to help others, those with gifts of administration, and those speaking in different kinds of tongues. &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28648&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;29&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all teachers? Do all work miracles? &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28649&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;30&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;Do all have gifts of healing? Do all speak in tongues&lt;SUP class=footnote value='[&lt;a href="#fen-NIV-28649d" title="See footnote d"&gt;d&lt;/a&gt;]'&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;[&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A title="See footnote d" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Corinthians+12&amp;amp;version=NIV#fen-NIV-28649d" rel="nofollow"&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;d&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;]&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;? Do all interpret? &lt;SUP class=versenum id=en-NIV-28650&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;31&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt;But eagerly desire&lt;SUP class=footnote value='[&lt;a href="#fen-NIV-28650e" title="See footnote e"&gt;e&lt;/a&gt;]'&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;[&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;A title="See footnote e" href="http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Corinthians+12&amp;amp;version=NIV#fen-NIV-28650e" rel="nofollow"&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;e&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/A&gt;&lt;FONT size=1&gt;]&lt;/FONT&gt;&lt;/SUP&gt; the greater gifts. &lt;BR&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;And now I will show you the most excellent way.&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description><comments>http://polymath.xanga.com/712600726/comments-from-around-the-webpushing-and-pulling-continued/#firstcomment</comments></item><item><title>Gloves and Strikes</title><link>http://polymath.xanga.com/712172614/gloves-and-strikes/</link><guid>http://polymath.xanga.com/712172614/gloves-and-strikes/</guid><pubDate>Sun, 20 Sep 2009 19:16:21 GMT</pubDate><description>&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;SPAN lang=EN-GB&gt;It should be noted that hand striking in K1, boxing and MMA are actually quite different for a number of different reasons.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;SPAN lang=EN-GB&gt;The most obvious is probably the rule differences: because there are no take downs in boxing and K1, your stance can be optimized to shift your upper body to avoid strikes to the head, and you can concentrate training for striking combinations that wouldn't be as easy to apply if someone were trying to grapple with you all the time.&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;SPAN lang=EN-GB&gt;Obviously the presence of kicks changes things a great deal either, as boxers don't need to defend their legs or torsos from kicks...&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;SPAN lang=EN-GB&gt;However, another major difference not often discussed is the gloves.&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/SPAN&gt;In boxing and K1, you can put up two arms and use a passive block and pretty much at least deflect the vast majority of strikes to your head.&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/SPAN&gt;The glove size precludes slipping a strike between paired forearms.&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/SPAN&gt;The glove size makes it easier to deflect a blow, and distributes the force on your opponents head differently.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;SPAN lang=EN-GB&gt;MMA gloves are significantly smaller, allowing a different dynamic to striking and blocking.&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/SPAN&gt;Perhaps what might be more interesting is seeing K1 fighters using MMA gloves, under K1 rules.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;SPAN lang=EN-GB&gt;If one really wants to see striking skills, let's remove all padding, and allow people to use ridges, bare knuckles, chops, palm strikes (and I don't mean slapping), knife hands etc.&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/SPAN&gt;Of course the disfiguring injury rate would go up unacceptably, but... the best way to see how high the accuracy could get would be to take away all the encumbrances, and see what else a striker like Anderson Silva or Machida could sneak in through their opponents guard.&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;SPAN lang=EN-GB&gt;What's sometimes forgotten is that some of the advantages karate and other TCMs are supposed to have is body hardening of the striking surfaces.&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/SPAN&gt;A spear/knife hand can give you an extra 6 inches of reach, whereas a boxing glove, completely alters the profile of your spiking plane into a big blob.&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;SPAN lang=EN-GB&gt;In a sense, a boxer that can knock someone out with a heavy nerfball on his fist should be able to be really dangerous with bare knuckles... I think.&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P class=MsoNormal&gt;&lt;SPAN lang=EN-GB&gt;Nevertheless, I think boxing gloves change a lot of fundamental factors related to accuracy because of the equipment.&lt;SPAN&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/SPAN&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description><comments>http://polymath.xanga.com/712172614/gloves-and-strikes/#firstcomment</comments></item></channel></rss>